Narcissism is a negative sum, infinite game

If you look into game theory, there are several types of game, e.g., negative sum and zero sum games. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Game_theory

Simon Sinek then talks about finite and infinite games. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Infinite_Game

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In a narcissistic relationship you are playing an infinite game; multiple rounds, and for each round, the  score mostly is negative, because they set you up with no-win situations.  (I'll admit they sprinkle in a few wins, just to keep you playing, a bit like a one-armed bandit does)

I say negative score, because even when the narcissist "wins", they really aren't ever "happier" for it.

How low can you go before you realise, like WOPR did, "The only winning move is not to play?"



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