Jerry Seinfeld quote about parenting

Thought of this after the school holiday week that just passed where we didn't do anything special together, but did spend time together.

“I don’t need any special days. I mean they’re all special. We spend a lot of time together and I enjoy every second of it. Again, I’m a believer in the ordinary and the mundane. These guys that talk about ‘quality time’ – I always find that a little sad when they say, ‘We have quality time.’ I don’t want quality time. I want the garbage time. That’s what I like. You just see them in their room reading a comic book and you get to kind of watch that for a minute, or [having] a bowl of Cheerios at 11 o’clock at night when they’re not even supposed to be up. The garbage, that’s what I love.”

So, a great week, followed by a drop-off at their mums where in the space of two minutes she accused me of feeding my kids too much sugar today (a donut! gasp! *clutches pearls*, *pretends not to hear about the fruit and vegetables*), and then accused me of trying to steal her computer monitor (my monitor, which my daughter had borrowed and was giving me back). She really is exhausting to be around. It must be even worse BEING her.

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