Audiobook: "Talking To Strangers" by Malcolm Gladwell

 


An interesting book about how we think we know if we can trust others, including stories about spies, con artists, terrorists and police.

I'm still confused what I was supposed to learn from the section about Brock Turner and alcohol affecting memory and decision making.

After listening to this, all I know is that I don't know who to trust any more.

4/5

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